Guest Blogger of the Week: Mia Lucas

Mia is an avid writer but more so her idiom is perfection. She speaks the English language better than anyone else who speaks it. She takes pride in knowing the right word for the right occasion. More importantly, she knows a lot about dating! although her biggest fault is not living in the same area code as the other person we won't hold it against her. Here is one of her dating tips. And, if you want to know more, visit her blog at http://direnonsense.blogspot.com

Here is tip! Follow it boys. It'll work.

She wants you to approach her. We don't dress up and shave our legs and walk on stilts for nothing. Get over here. If you approach her and you get rejected then maybe you need work on technique or delivery, but don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. Don't take rejection to meanyou are undesirable or that the girls don't want you. Just keep toying with technique, and see what happens. There is no harm in approaching a girl, no matter what kind of weird look she gives you. She's just taken by surprise, don't mind her. She doesn't know quite how to react but trust me - internally she's taken it as a compliment that you've made the approach. You might have made her day, if not walked away with her number and dinner-and-a-movie plans. Never fight the urge to approach her if the urge presents itself. If she isn't engaged in conversation and if she isn't engaged in general - basically, if there's no ring on her finger - and you feel inspired to talk to her...do it! If you don't want to impose on her, feel free to say something like "I'd hate to make you uncomfortable, so I'll just leave you with this in case you text too much like I do" then give her your card or something else with your info on it. It sounds like a risky move, but it certainly shows courage. She'll be intrigued if nothing else, and she might just have to text you to see what the fuss is all about.